Tips for the start of school!

Although most children have transitioned beautifully, separation anxiety or difficulties with routines can happen.  

Here are some hints for saying goodbye and developing some good routines:

• Make good-byes short and positive. If children are sad, smile and say I love you and remind them that you will be back soon to pick them up. Then go!  Drive out of sight and call the office if you would like to check on your child. We are more than happy to peek in the classroom and see how they are doing.  We will be sure to call you if you child is upset for more than a few minutes.
• Establish a morning routine with plenty of time so you can be on time and not rushed.  Laying out clothing the night before and having lunch items packed or readily available helps to make the morning more relaxed and more enjoyable.  My children loved breakfast, so I would not allow them to sit down for breakfast until they were completely ready for school. You will need to think what helps your child in his or her routines.
• Ask your child’s teacher, Michelle Edwards, or me if you need some strategies or advice. We are here to help!  Our teachers have expertise and can give guidance on a variety of areas.  We are your partners and your child’s well-being is our first priority.
• Be on time.  Arriving late can throw children off, sparking anxiety.  Sometimes it may happen, but always try to be prompt.
• Be calm and enthusiastic about your child’s school experience. Most WHMS children, even at the oldest levels, LOVE school. Just this morning, one of the 8^th graders said, “I can’t believe I am in 8^th grade! I don’t ever want to leave!” Popular culture often encourages children to dislike school, as if enjoying school is not cool or normal.  Acknowledge your child’s fears and unhappiness, but be careful not to pay so much attention as to unintentionally encourage it.  At the dinner table, each person can take turns to tell about what was the best part of their day. Nightly routines including reading to your child help transitions to bedtime.
• After a couple weeks,  arrange some play dates from your child’s classroom.  It will help make the transition back to school easier.